The process of planning a wedding is like a “love-hate” relationship. Every bride in this process goes through days when everything goes well, and plans follow precisely, days when brides love being brides and fully enjoy that moment. However, there are other days when things don’t go according to plan, things that are beyond our control, or complications arise.
Our mission is to make you love this process every day and enjoy being the bride. That’s why we consult with the best experts in the industry to share some of the most common mistakes when planning a wedding so that you can avoid them and the stress they bring.
Mistakes to avoid when planning your wedding for everything to go perfectly
Hiring vendors too far in advance
While it’s crucial not to leave everything to the last minute, it’s also not good to start too early. Ideally, hire vendors a year in advance, as trends and preferences may change over time, and vendors will be focused on upcoming weddings.
Hiring vendors before the wedding planner
If you plan to have a wedding planner, they should be your first hire. They will help you make important decisions about the wedding, such as choosing the venue or hiring the caterer or decorator. Some wedding planners are also designers, so it’s recommended to start planning with them to avoid duplicating efforts.
Delaying hiring your photographer & videographer
Often, we forget that photographers capture the memories of that special day for the rest of our lives. By waiting until the last minute, you risk not having the one you’ve always wanted. So, as soon as you get engaged, start searching for your photographer or videographer.
Forgetting that you and your partner are the most important
It’s common to want to please others (whether it’s the mother-in-law, mother, siblings, or friends) and forget that it’s your wedding. You should make decisions based on your tastes, needs, and budget. Whenever you and your partner feel overwhelmed with a decision, take a step back and reflect on what you both really want. Trust your instincts and don’t be afraid to break with traditions.
Sending invitations at the last minute
Invitations formalize the event and provide important details such as schedules, addresses, or dress codes. Whether you send digital or physical invitations, it’s ideal to send them three months in advance for local weddings and six months in advance for destination weddings. This allows guests to plan and ensure they can attend your special day.
Expecting everything to be perfect
We always want our wedding to be perfect from start to finish, just like the planning process. However, remember that perfection doesn’t exist, and there are circumstances beyond your control. So, relax, enjoy, have fun, and focus on the most important thing—celebrating your love.
Now that you know the most common mistakes to avoid when planning your wedding, you can start the process and make this relationship pure love and happiness. Enjoy and love being the bride every day.
Don’t have a wedding planner yet? We recommend:
- Casaos Conmigo by Lara Morato: This company plans, designs, and organizes weddings. Their team of wedding planners pays attention to every detail of your celebration, and they are certified specialists in weddings, ensuring flawless and perfect planning.
- Festino Events: Led by Natalia Redolfi, this team has been working with couples since 2013 to create their dream weddings. With a background in planning and architecture, they will find the perfect venue for your destination wedding, with excellent spaces for capturing photos and enjoying the landscapes.
- Planning by Ivana Ojeda & CO: This company, established in November 2014, is dedicated to fulfilling dreams through unique and unforgettable events. Their expertise lies in weddings, including destination weddings, and they are certified to organize LGBT+ weddings.
- Girls of Honor: The Girls of Honor is a company specializing in the design, coordination, and planning of exclusive events. There primary goal is to assist couples who have just said ‘I do!’ in creating a creative, personalized, and unique wedding that reflects their essence and evokes emotions in San Miguel de Allende.
